How to help your new cat settle in

Your new cat is looking to YOU to show them what to do and what is expected of them. Think of yourself as a tour guide showing around a foreign visitor who doesn’t speak your language!

Start off as you mean to go on: with you calm and in charge. They will feel more secure and happier if they know where they fit in. Having a routine really helps (i.e. feeding around the same time, etc.) because they know what to expect.

If you have other pets, don’t allow the newbie to run into the house and up to other animals as they may feel they’re being ‘invaded’. And don’t let existing pets to do so to the new one. Take him/her to the cats’ and/or dogs’ bedding so they can have a sniff. Watch your new pet to see how they react – he/she should appear interested and friendly.

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 I don’t know that I’m adopted”

Put yourself in your new pet’s paws: they don’t yet know that they’re ‘adopted’ or that this is their ‘forever home’. Try to understand that they may be a little bewildered or even scared; they don’t know the rules and what they may or may not do (including where they’re allowed to go ‘toilet’).

No matter how good or bad the place they came from was, this is still a big change – they’re looking to you to show them the ropes, teach the rules, make them feel safe, and help them understand what their place in this new home is. This move is stressful to them – it’s all new and unfamiliar!


  • Choose a little-used room where people won’t be coming in and out all the time and where you can close the door.
  • Provide ‘hidey holes’ such as cat igloos/tents, boxes, or cat climbing platforms.
  • Place the food and water away from where the cat would hide – if it hides under a bed, place the food so it has to come from under the bed to eat – this encourages them to get the idea that it has to come out sooner or later. 
  • Ensure the litter box is away from the food and water and is cleaned daily.


Never allow a newly adopted cat to roam around an open house (doors/windows open) unattended as it may run away.

Some rescued animals take time getting used to the luxury of having a bed of their own and may initially choose to lie on the floor. Don’t force them but keep showing them where they may sleep (putting some treats in the bed helps!).

The recommendation is that a new cat stays in one room only for at least two weeks, especially if they seem nervous. It becomes a safe space for them to explore at their leisure. Make sure the room is peaceful but that they can still hear and smell the household noises.

Having a safe zone allows them to get comfortable in that one room and gives them time to relax, come out of hiding with no surprises and they know where they can go if they need time out – there’s no panic. 

An additional benefit is that your existing animals and the new cat can smell and hear each other through the door and get used to each other’s presence without any surprises. Improve things by putting something that smells of the other pets (like a blanket) inside the room with the new cat.

Whereas our main sense is sight, cats view the world through many planes. They are very much aware of sound, smell and space around them. By limiting some of those aspects and giving them a chance to know the smells and sounds of the household without encountering everything all in one go, it helps them to process what’s happening.

Once they explore further, because they now know the sounds, smells, routine, adding the sight and space aspects when they come out of a room isn’t quite so overwhelming for them

Remember that your new cat doesn’t know you so, even though they like you, they still need to ‘suss you out’ and get to know you better. Take small amounts of food to them regularly – they then learn the good stuff comes from you so you must be okay! 

TIP! Rescue Remedy drops (you can get it at Dischem, Clicks, pharmacy, etc) in the water bowl – can help nervous cats settle. You can also try catnip – some cats react to it, some don’t. Try putting something that smells of you – such as a tshirt – in the room with her. 


Please bring a cat carrier when you fetch your cat. This keeps them safe and feeling secure in the car and helps calm them for the trip. Do not stop anywhere on the way home with your new cat, be it the shops or a friend – it is stressful to them, and you run the risk of them escaping.



Animals at the rescue centre eat a wide variety of pellets and soft food.

It’s entirely your decision what you’re going to feed them in future, but we recommend choosing good quality food as this keeps their overall health good, which reduces vet visits.

We always recommended getting a small tub of Protexin or other a probiotic for animals – as many animals get a bit of an upset tummy at first due to the change in food and environment.


Before you even bring your new cat home, ensure that everything is ready for them so that their arrival is stress-free for everyone. Have a ‘safe zone’ ready.  

This means that:

  • the house is secure,
  • their sleeping place is in place,
  • you have all the ‘bits and pieces’ you need (including food),
  • the entire family knows the rules and routine ahead.


Newly-adopted cats are often curious, scared, or bewildered and may try to leave the property/run away; it is during the first few days that this risk is greatest, and they can get lost or injured. Look at your house from a cat’s eye view to spot possible weak spots.

Note: this doesn’t mean you have adopted an escape artist – remember, the cat doesn’t know that he or she is at their new home or where the home’s boundaries are.

A few don’ts

Supervise them in the beginning but stay calm. Avoid ‘screaming’, even you’re if excited and happy. Animals perceive this as unsettling or it can ‘wind them up’.

If anyone in your household is very anxious, overly excitable, or anticipating disaster, ask them not to be there initially. Animals sense emotion and can react accordingly; you want them to start off in a calm, balanced, and positive manner. They can meet the new dog when things have calmed down.

No matter how much you want to show the newbie off, rather let things settle down for a day or so, allowing everyone to get used to each other, before having visitors over.

When people do visit ask them to pay attention to the other animal/s before the new one.

What do we do when the cat is ready to come out of the room?

Once the cat is settled and at ease in their room, open the door to their room and walk away.
The cat might come out straight away, or they might not – but eventually their curiosity will  get the better of them and they will come out. If there are a lot of rooms in your house, close some of them to minimise the space. 

It will be good to do this when people won’t be walking around a lot and could startle her as she’s exploring (for example if you’re out or in the evening when everyone is settled in, watching TV, or going to bed). Try not to be offended if the cat hides when you walk into a room.
And, if the cat still seems very nervous then go back to keeping her in the room for another few days

Once they are at ease in that space, they’re ready to explore further.
Because they now know the sounds, smells, routine, adding the sight and space aspects when they come out of a room isn’t quite so overwhelming for them (like swaddling a newborn baby so they feel secure).

Also, if they feel any nerves, they know immediately they can head for their safe space and process things. That then eliminates the panic and frantic search for a place to hide when someone suddenly comes into the room. All of that builds their confidence. 

It may take a few weeks until the cat is ready to go outside into the garden (assuming it isn’t going to be an inside cat) and, when it’s time to do so, supervise them at first. Only when you are 200% sure your cat is fully bonded with you should you consider letting them outside unattended.


Don’t be disappointed if new and existing pets aren’t friends straight away; some are instant BFFs and others take longer to bond – just like people.

Make sure existing pets, especially cats, see and understand that they’re still important and aren’t being ‘replaced’ but don’t ‘play favourites’. Ensure you stay in charge.

If your new cat is nervous, when you visit, just sit peacefully and don’t be discouraged if the cat doesn’t come at first. Get her used to the sound of your voice while you are in the room by reading aloud or talking on your phone.

Just keep visiting, preferably with a routine, until she catches on that you’re not going to give up and they have nothing to fear. 


Introducing a new cat to an existing cat-home can take time and patience. Cats are often placed in positions where they’re either a resident cat faced with a newcomer cat or they’re a new cat coming into an existing cat’s territory. Truthfully, it’s probably not much fun being in either position.

Throwing two cats into one environment without proper consideration of their positions is just asking for trouble. But, with a carefully planned introduction, cats can ease into accepting one another and may just become life long pals.

  1. Keep Your Cats Separated At First

Feed both cats near the door to the ‘safe zone’ room so they learn to associate the smell and sound of each other with a positive experience. Doling out treats near the door is also a good idea.

After 2-3 days, some cat experts recommend switching the cats’ locations so they can get used to each others’ smells.

Many behaviorists advise rubbing the cats with the same towel to mix their scents. Try this: use a clean sock to rub on the new cat’s face to capture her facial pheromones. Then leave the sock near the existing cat and let him investigate on his own.

After a few more days, the next step is to play with each of the cats near the door, building up positive associations with the scent of the other cat. This play, again, helps each cat associate the other cat with a good time.

  1. Slowly Let The Cats See Each Other

If all seems to be going well and your cats aren’t hissing or growling under the door at each other, after a week, you can try visually introducing the cats. Installing a screen door or even a high baby gate (that neither cat can jump over) can work. It’s helpful to have another human with you so there is one person and one cat on each side of the barrier.

Continue feeding, playing with and giving the cats treats within view of the other cats, but don’t force it! If one cat won’t eat her food right next to the screen, try moving the food dish a few feet away. Let the cats determine how close you move the dish.

If both cats are eating comfortably, try moving the dish a little closer, but don’t be afraid to start off with the food dishes ten — or more– feet apart.

  1. Make the Face-to-Face Introduction

The final step in the process is to let the cats be together, face-to-face, for supervised interaction. Don’t worry if the cats completely ignore each other or hiss a bit and then walk away. It will take some time for your cats to learn that the other is a friend and not a foe.

 Keep watching the cats and let them take things at their own pace as long as no one is starting to bully or harass the other. You should be able to gauge how it’s going. If you sense one cat is harassing the other, don’t be afraid to seek professional assistance from a behaviorist.

It may take time and a bit of patience but your efforts have a good chance of being rewarded in the long run when your cats become content companions in your home for life.

NOTE: Kittens and older cats

Remember that young animals can be overwhelming to existing pets, especially seniors – make sure they have safe, calm place to retreat to where the new pet may not go. If you have a spare room, this is perfect. Alternatively, try sectioning off a portion of a large room.



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